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Recognizing Your Blessings
Two old friends bumped into one another
on the street one day. One of them looked forlorn, almost on the verge
of tears. His friend asked, "What has the world done to you, old
friend?"
The sad fellow said, "Let me
tell you. Three weeks ago, an uncle died and left me forty thousand dollars."
"That's a lot of money."
"But you see, two weeks ago,
a cousin I never knew died, and left me eighty-five thousand free and clear."
"Sounds like you've been blessed..."
"You don't understand!" he interrupted.
"Last week my great aunt passed away. I inherited almost a quarter of a
million."
Now he was really confused.
"Then why do you look so glum?"
"This week.....nothing!"
That's the trouble with receiving
something on a regular basis. Even if it is a gift, we eventually come
to expect it. Someone recentlysuggested to me a way to test someone's character.
Give him or her $5 a day for a month. Then stop, and see what their reaction
is. The natural tendency is that if you receive a gift long enough, we
come to view it as am entitlement. We feel hurt, even angry, if we don't
receive it any longer.
It's the same way with the Blessings
God gives me every day. I don't deserve the comfortable home I live in,
the beautiful mountains around me, the clean water that I drink. But after
receiving these gifts (and a multitude of others) for years, I sometimes
fail to be grateful. I've come to expect these good things. And when one
of them is removed for a short while (like the water being cut off), I
get upset. Make an effort today to recognize the blessings you've
come to take for granted. Focus on what you have rather than on what you
don't have, and see if it doesn't improve your attitude.
Oh, that men would give thanks
to the Lord for His Goodness, and His Wonderful Works to the children of
men! Psalm 107:8 |